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Skip the SexPosted by anonymous 10/14/2008 07:53 AM | Last Reply 11/30/2009 06:53 PMI’m a guy, and I’m not gay or asexual, but I’m really more interested in getting to know a girl and falling in love with her, and then doing romantic stuff than just skipping to fucking. In fact, I think that, with some intense hooking-up, and slowly working further and further, I might be able to enjoy myself without ever even getting to sex.0 votes reportreplyAd0 votes Sponsored Advertisement
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Posted by anonymous 10/14/2008 07:53 AMEh, probably the reason we are thought to be invisible are we aren’t the kind of guys who are attention whores, who typically get the girls’ attention.reply 20 votes report
Posted by anonymous 10/14/2008 07:53 AMHaha, I think there are quite a few of us, it’s just that we’re not quite as…hmm, noticeable I guess? I’d have no problem with no sex, but I think my weirdness level is higher than mostreply 30 votes report
Posted by anonymous 10/14/2008 07:53 AMunder what particular rock have you guys been living?reply 40 votes report
Posted by anonymous 10/14/2008 07:53 AMI’d prefer a deeper, more emotional relationship myself, not just sex. :Oreply 50 votes report
Posted by anonymous 10/14/2008 07:53 AMActually, I am the same way.reply 60 votes report
Posted by anonymous 10/14/2008 07:53 AMyou’re a rare gemreply 70 votes report
Posted by anonymous guy ’11 02/06/2009 06:11 AMyou go to Harvard and your comma usage is terrible. What the, fuck?reply 80 votes report
Posted by anonymous guy 03/01/2009 04:26 AMI understand wanting the relationship, romance, etc. But, personally, I want the sex too!
I tried a relationship where we didn’t have sex until we had been together for about nine months (she was a virgin). By then, I didn’t even want to be with her anymore, I just wanted to get laid after all the effort to keep the relationship going. We finally started having sex for a few months before I left her for a nympho. I needed normal after the sex-starved relationship, but I went to the other extreme. All sex, no romance.
My wife is the prefect balance. ;)reply 90 votes report
Posted by anonymous girl ’12 03/01/2009 02:49 PMyou sound perfect. reply 100 votes report
Posted by anonymous guy 03/01/2009 05:54 PMI admire you, #8. I absolutely hate the extremes that are so common nowadays. I either meet girls who immediately want to jump right into bed (which I don’t like because as mentioned by other people here, I like to be emotionally attached to a girl before the sex) or I meet women who have no interest in sex AT ALL, no matter how well the relationship is going.
Personally, I look forward to marriage just to be able to escape all this shit.
Sadly, you probably got the only perfect one out there.reply 110 votes report
Posted by anonymous girl 03/09/2009 06:47 AMDidn’t you post this on the U.C. Berkeley forum?
I went to Cal, just checked the forum and saw a very similar post. 😉
Well, that’s all right.
Anyhow, for your question. You sound like a really sweet guy. Some girls may greatly appreciate your attitude towards sex. By not having an a**hole mentality, you are probably attracting more realationship-oriented girls. If you seem to be having troubles and are attracting girls who are more interested in hooking up, you can try talking to them and letting them know that you would like something a little bit more committed/serious. Some girls may greatly appreciate your honesty/courage and may even agree that a committed relationship is best for the two of you.
Just give it a shot! You’ll never know until you try it!reply 120 votes report
Posted by anonymous 03/11/2009 07:14 PM I’d prefer a deeper, more emotional relationship myself…i just wanna porkreply 130 votes report
Posted by anonymous girl ’10 03/12/2009 07:59 AM Actually, I am the same way….um, yeaah i want to be under whatever rock you guys are hiding under! props to you boys :)reply 140 votes report
Posted by anonymous 03/13/2009 12:22 PM um, yeaah i want to be under whatever rock you guys are…well i just wanna be under you!reply 150 votes report
Posted by anonymous 03/13/2009 01:37 PMThese guys aren’t hiding under a rock ladies, they’re out there every day. You just don’t talk to them because they’re hideously unattractive. I’d still like to thank you guys for not wanting to have sex, we don’t need more ugly children.reply 160 votes report
Posted by anonymous guy 03/13/2009 06:10 PM These guys aren’t hiding under a rock ladies, they’re…Oh now, they aren’t ALL ugly. Some of them are just shy. Still, any male who doesn’t want sex automatically qualifies as ‘psychologically disturbed’, so be careful approaching them.reply 170 votes report
Posted by anonymous 03/13/2009 11:14 PMWomen, do not believe him. This is his motive to get into your pants trust me. I have heard it before.reply 180 votes report
Posted by anonymous 03/14/2009 02:34 AM i just wanna pork…Pork??! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA fag. You’re never gonna get any pussy with that kind of attitude.reply 190 votes report
Posted by anonymous 04/04/2009 07:57 PMwow i wish there were guys like that at ESUreply